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The Sibling Conflict Guide

A practical, evidence-informed system for reducing fighting, handling aggression and helping siblings build better conflict skills.

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164
Pages
26
Chapters
8
Quick cards
30
Day practice plan
What's inside

A calmer way through the fights that keep repeating.

The Sibling Conflict Guide is a practical system for parents of children aged 2 to 8 who fight, compete and provoke each other daily. It helps you prepare for the repeat flashpoints, step in safely when conflict escalates, and coach repair and better conflict skills after calm returns.

Inside are 26 chapters, eight quick-reference cards, four practical tools and a thirty-day plan: attention and fairness without scorekeeping, refereeing without taking sides, repair routines, prevention systems and what to do when aggression, jealousy or a new sibling raises the temperature.

This guide is educational information, not therapy, diagnosis or individual medical, psychological or developmental advice. Seek local professional support whenever a child is being harmed, frightened or persistently overwhelmed.

01Why sibling conflict repeatsThe patterns beneath attention, fairness, space and control.
02Prevent the flashpointsPractical routines that reduce the pressure before a fight begins.
03In the momentSafety, separation, simple scripts and calmer intervention.
04After the fightRepair, reconnection and skills that carry into the next disagreement.
05The toolsQuick cards and practical supports for the hardest family moments.
06The 30-day planA steady way to practise change without trying to fix everything overnight.
+ 8 quick-reference cards, 4 practical tools and a 30-day plan
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Twinkens, parenting guide

Written and fact-checked by the Twinkens editorial team as a practical parenting guide, with sources and further reading included at the end of the book.

Its approach is educational: it combines principles from developmental research on sibling relationships, behavioural parent training and paediatric guidance. It is not a clinically validated intervention or a substitute for individual care.

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Parents and caregivers of children aged 2 to 8 dealing with daily fighting, rivalry, jealousy or aggression between siblings.

A calmer system for recurring sibling conflict.

26 chapters, quick-reference cards and a 30-day plan for the fights that keep repeating.

Buy now · $19.90